Discover how to access short breaks for children with SEND. This guide from Fun and Play helps families in Weybridge and Walton-on-Thames understand local support options.
What are short breaks for children with SEND?
Short breaks for children with SEND offer a vital lifeline for families. They provide children with disabilities the chance to enjoy fun and enriching experiences, while also giving carers time to recharge. If you’re looking for ways to support your child’s needs and make space for your own wellbeing, this guide from Fun and Play is here to help 💛
We’re local parents, not professionals. We’ve put this together based on our experience navigating support services around Weybridge, Walton-on-Thames, and beyond, to help other families find their way through.
💡 Understanding short breaks and respite care
Short breaks for children with SEND are designed to support both the child and their family. They give children a chance to build independence, try new things, and have fun. At the same time, they allow parents and carers to rest, focus on other children, or simply take a breather.
This type of support is separate from your child’s EHCP or any educational provision. It usually comes from the local authority’s social care budget and is based on need, not income. Every disabled child has the right to a social care assessment, and local councils should offer support based on that assessment, regardless of the child’s age.
📝 How to access short breaks for children with SEND
Families can often apply for short breaks themselves through the local council website. In some cases, a professional such as your child’s SENCO, health visitor, or social worker can help with a referral, but this isn’t always required.
It’s a good idea to get onto your council’s radar as early as possible, especially if you expect to need support during the holidays.
📦 What can short breaks for children with SEND fund?
Depending on your child’s assessed needs and the local offer, support might include:
✅ Direct payments for PAs
Some councils offer direct payments that let you employ a personal assistant (PA). These payments may come through a prepaid card and can be used to pay someone to support your child during activities or at home.
Your PA might help your child attend an inclusive activity, go on outings, or enjoy playtime in familiar surroundings. This support is flexible and family-led.
✅ Access to inclusive activities
Short breaks funding can open doors to specialist clubs and sessions. Some options around Surrey include:
- The Yorda Playhouse in Hook: Offers sensory play sessions and music rooms in a welcoming environment.
- Woking Leisure Centre: SEND soft play sessions with low lighting, sensory toys, and a calm atmosphere.
- Meadow Bank soft play: Hosts SEND-friendly sessions with fewer children.
- Challengers (Guildford and Farnham): Inclusive play centres with staff trained to support children with complex needs.
- Redlees Play Centre (Isleworth): Drop-in sessions that can be funded through short breaks.
- Spelthorne Gymnastics: SEND classes on Sunday mornings.
- Chelsea Foundation: Adapted sports and sensory programmes for SEND children.
- SEND pantomimes: Look out for inclusive shows at Woking and other local theatres.
✅ New Surrey short breaks programme
A recent initiative offers free short breaks sessions at Heathside on Saturdays and Manby Lodge on Sundays. These run from 10am to 1.45pm and include half-term camps. They are open to children up to 14 years old. The sessions are led by staff who often have family experience with neurodivergence and are genuinely passionate about making the sessions work for every child ❤️
⚠️ Common challenges with short breaks for children with SEND
Some families find the application process overwhelming. There may be long waiting lists or delays, and some councils are not always clear about what’s available.
If your request is turned down, you can ask for a reassessment. Keep detailed notes about your child’s needs and do not hesitate to push back if your child is not getting the right support.
You may also find it takes time to find a suitable PA or activity. Be patient and persistent, and remember you are not alone.
🌟 Why short breaks for children with SEND matter
Short breaks are not a luxury. They are an essential part of making life sustainable for families caring for young children with SEND. They create space for joy, rest, and balance, and they allow children to thrive in environments that celebrate their individuality.
We know from experience that getting the right support takes time. But once in place, it can change the rhythm of your week, help you feel more supported, and give your child experiences they will love 💕🎨🛝
❓ FAQs: short breaks for children with SEND
What age can my child start accessing short breaks?
There’s no minimum age. Even very young children can receive support after a social care assessment.
Do I need an EHCP to apply?
No. Short breaks are part of social care support, not educational provision, so an EHCP is not required.
Are short breaks means-tested?
No, they are based on your child’s needs, not your household income.
How do I get a social care assessment?
Contact your local authority and ask for a child in need assessment under the Children Act. This is your legal right.
Can I use the funding for a childminder or nursery?
Sometimes. If the provider meets your child’s specific needs and your local authority agrees, this may be allowed.
🧩 Final thoughts from Fun and Play
Short breaks for children with SEND can make a real difference, not just for the child but for the whole family. If you’re in Weybridge, Walton-on-Thames or nearby, explore your local council’s offer, ask for a social care assessment, and don’t be afraid to chase things up if you need to.
We hope this guide helps you take that next step 💙