Starting nursery or preschool is a huge milestone for little ones, and for parents too! September is just around the corner 🍂, bringing a big new chapter for many families in Weybridge, Walton-on-Thames, and beyond. Whether it’s your child’s very first day or they’re returning after the summer break, this transition can feel exciting, emotional, and a little overwhelming ❤️.
At Fun and Play, we’ve put together this supportive guide with practical ideas to help make starting nursery or preschool a calm, confident, and positive experience 🌟.
Getting ready emotionally and practically 💬🎒
📚 Use storybooks to introduce the change
Reading together is a lovely way to start conversations about starting nursery or preschool. Books like Maisy Goes to Nursery, A Little Bit Brave, or stories that explore emotions can help toddlers understand what to expect and name their feelings 💕. These stories can offer comfort and familiarity, especially during the weeks leading up to the big day.
🏡 Choose a warm, welcoming nursery environment
The right nursery or preschool setting makes a real difference. Nurseries that offer a nurturing space both inside and outdoors 🌳 help children feel at ease from day one. A kind and attentive team can make drop-offs easier, while consistent routines, plenty of play, and a gentle structure support confidence and independence.
🧩🎨 Learning through play: nursery as preparation
Starting nursery or preschool isn’t just about childcare, it’s the beginning of learning through play. Local settings often support:
- Language development
- Social interaction
- Focus and independence
- Early problem-solving skills
Children learn best when play is central to their day 🤹♀️, gently preparing them for school in a relaxed, age-appropriate way.
👜👕 Get the gear sorted early
Having everything ready helps both children and parents feel more at ease. Your list for starting nursery or preschool might include:
- Labelled clothing
- Spare clothes
- Water bottle
- Nappies or wipes if needed
- Comfort item like a soft toy 🧸
- Family photo in the bag (for reassurance)
- Toddler wellies or outdoor shoes
Organising these bits in advance saves stress on the morning itself!
⏰👶 Talk about the new routine
Children thrive on predictability. Talking through what will happen during the day before starting nursery or preschool (arriving, saying goodbye, playtime, lunch, nap time, pick-up) can help ease anxiety and make the unknown feel more manageable. You could even do a few practice runs 🚶♀️🚗 walking or driving past the nursery so your child starts to feel familiar with the journey.
💖😢 Support big emotions gently
It is completely normal for children to feel wobbly when starting something new. Tears at drop-off do not mean something is wrong, they are simply a sign that your child is adjusting. A short and confident goodbye with a reassuring smile 😊 is often more helpful than lingering. Children tend to settle quickly once the day begins.
🌈 When the timing is right
Some families choose starting nursery or preschool to access funded hours 💷, while others begin for socialisation, routine, or work needs. Whatever your reason, finding the right fit and preparing gently can make the journey a positive one for everyone.
❓ FAQs: Starting Nursery or Preschool
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When should I start preparing my child for nursery or preschool?
It’s a good idea to begin gently preparing 2–3 weeks before the start date. Talk about the routine, visit the nursery, and read books together.
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What if my child cries at drop-off?
It’s normal! A short, confident goodbye is often best. Most children settle quickly once they start playing.
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What should I pack for my child’s first day?
Essentials include labelled clothes, a water bottle, nappies (if needed), a comfort toy, and a spare outfit.
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How can I help my child feel more confident about starting nursery?
Familiarise them with the setting, talk about their new routine, and involve them in packing their bag or choosing clothes.
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What if my child isn’t ready for a full day?
Many nurseries offer flexible settling-in sessions. Start small and build up to longer days if needed.
🧡 Final thoughts
Starting nursery or preschool is a big moment 🎉, but it’s also the beginning of new friendships, playtime discoveries, and confidence-building adventures 🚀. With preparation, patience, and the right support, your little one will thrive.
Is your child starting nursery this September? We’d love to hear how you’re preparing. Drop us a message or tag us in your stories 📸💬
You’ve got this, mums and dads! 💪🌟
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